
You Don’t Have to Almost Die to Wake Up to Your Life
The Unscripted Woman is the version of you waiting beneath all the roles you’ve played.
There’s a moment every woman reaches.

Quiet. Private. Sacred.
She looks around at the life she’s built — the career, the family, the relationships — and feels that ache rise up in her chest:
"Is this all there is?"
Maybe it happens in midlife.
Maybe it happens after a loss.
Maybe it happens after a divorce that shakes everything loose.
For me?
It happened twice.
Once after a near-death experience.
And once — just as profoundly — after I rebuilt my life from the ground up.
After divorce.
After heartbreak.
After sitting in the rubble of what I thought life was supposed to look like.
Here's the thing:
What surprised me was how beautiful it was to come home to myself.
To rebuild.
To choose intentionally.
To decide who I wanted to be — not based on roles or expectations — but based on truth.
I didn’t just rebuild my family.
I didn’t just rebuild my career.
I rebuilt me.
Stronger. Softer. Clearer. Happier.
Whole.
The unscripted woman is born:
Not from perfection.
Not from getting it all right.
Not from doing more or performing better.
She’s born from truth.
From letting go.
From deciding you belong to yourself first.
From rewriting what life gets to look like — on your terms.
That’s what I learned after almost dying.
That’s what I learned after divorce.
And that’s what I teach now.
Not because I have all the answers.
But because I know what it feels like to wake up one day and realize...
"I’m ready to live differently."
This is your invitation:
If you’re in that space — mid-transition, mid-awakening, mid-questioning — you’re not lost.
You’re on the edge of becoming.
This is what I write about every week — inside my private letters to women in their next season.
If you want to stay close, if this speaks to your heart — I’d love to have you.
Because the most powerful version of you isn’t out there someday.
She’s already within you.
Waiting.